40 Days of My Body: Day 22, AARGH! Doing it NOW!

October 13, 2009

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UUUgh! I  have been in my workout clothes since 7am today (it’s 630p as of the publishing of this post) and STILL haven’t worked out. Have you ever been here before? I allowed myself to get caught up in everything else but my commitment to my body. Now, it’s raining and dark and I’m heading out. What are you stalled on? Tell me in the comments below.

UPDATE (810pm: it was actually really fun being out in the rain to work out!)

If you are stalled and don’t know how to move forward, try these tips:

  • tell someone about your goal and ask them for help getting moving;
  • set an alarm for every time you want to take this one specific action and YIELD to it, no matter what (yes, that means pulling the car over and writing the next page of your novel!); and
  • set a deadline with someone else and (this is key) set consequences if you don’t accomplish what you commit to (great example in Danielle LaPorte’s post today).

I am blown away by the support for my 40 days of My Body (if you are new to this story, read the intro here) project, which is a quest in service to my business and my own path of finishing what I start. I am committed to exercising 6 days/week, keeping a food journal and being more aware of ways I use (and abuse) my body. Going public is extreme, yes, and it’s working! I’m working with a fantastic trainer, Sunny Riggs, to create a program I can sustain over time and she’s amazing. HIRE HER!

I am not alone on my quest. The roll call is at 29 people (including me)! Some are getting organized, others giving up fast food and some are simply breathing! Support them; check out their sites, give ‘em some good love:

Tanya Geisler–40 days of hatha yoga and radical self-care
Petra Korn–30 days on her body (supported with love by hubby Nick)
Tia Reddy–yoga and exercise.
Alisa Bonsignore–working out and food consciousness
Suzie Powanda–no fast food or beverages
Julie Rorrer–training for the Austin marathon in Spring
Emma Alvarez Gibson–some bit of exercise, every day
Joyce Black–21 days without caffeine/general detox
Carabunga is rocking 40 days of hardcore productivity and rocking a blog about it
Paula Trucks-Pape and her husband: 87 Days of exploring their passions. Today’s post is all about staying in the moment and having FUN!
Monica Kingsbury: 30 days of the Candida diet to deal with her sweet tooth
Jack and LisaMarie Rowell: 30 days of extreme health (alkaline diet)
Diane Sherry Case: 3 weeks of walking–she’s up to 20 minutes 4 days/week!
Cindy Morefield: 21 Days of 30 mins/day of cardio exercise
Paula Estes: 30 Days of playing drums
Sheila Hart
is IN: 21 Days of no sugar!
Amy Ahlers
: 40 days limiting processed food.)
SouperJenny Team: 40 Day hits the ATL! So far, Meredith is giving up sweets and Jenny is giving up booze!! 7 folks have joined their group. Gooo, Team Body, Mind, Spirit! Check out their Day 1 video here.

  • John from San Diego is giving up carbs and working out 3x/week (John, let me know if you want to work out on Saturday, I’ll be in San Diego–Dyana)
  • Sharon from Souper Jenny giving up all sugar except fruit
  • Merrideth giving up all sugar and exersising 4 times a week
  • Marcie will journal every day and cut down from 4 to 5 diet sodas a day to one per day
  • Tricia from Atlanta will drink a quart of her green juice concoction and exersise 5 to 7 times a day
  • Lucero Martinez a restaurant/bar owner will give up all alcohol!
  • Jenny giving up all alcohol and working out 5 times a week

Ashley White-Stern: 40 days of meditation
M Arsenia Brown (aka: @donutdemon) joins with a commitment to 40 days of her body
Cat Sabonis-Chafee is in and will “move my ass” for 21 days of daily, considered exercise

Okay, fabulous ones–what are you doing for YOU today?

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  • monicakingsbury
    Hi Dyana,
    today is day 14 for me and I am feeling good. I made it through a friends wedding and Thanksgiving dinner without dessert or bread and felt completely satisfied. In week 2 I reintroduced a fruit a day and am loving it.
    I am inspired by todays post ... you did it - rain and all. Thanks for doing this.
    ... monica
  • I am stalling a little bit on staying on top of everything. It's so easy for to be overwhelmed by the sheer amount of what I have to do. That is when I stall out, sit there and worry about what to do and all the while stressed out about the time I'm wasting while stalling. At those moments, I'd honestly rather just drop all the balls right then and there, crawl into bed, and sleep it away. Or procrastinate by doing anything other than something I really have to.

    It happened the other day when I had soooo much to do and I didn't know where to start. So I didn't do my must do's right away, I sat there and fiddled with my calendar and planner for two hours. Ate food. Sought out distractions. But then I wrote my 40day post and felt the fog clear!
  • marseniabrown
    Dyana, your honesty with everyone about your genuine humanity helps us stay open and honest with ourselves -- and forgiving! Doing the right thing isn't always fun, even when it is best. To shift the phrase a tad, instead of "Many hands make light work" how 'bout: "Many minds make light-hearted work!" Thank you for this community :-)
  • dyanavalentine
    I'm with you M Arsenia--and I really love your take on the quote. It is truly light-hearted work when working in community. I almost lost it yesterday and my friend looked at me and said--whoooooa, Nelly--take a breath! I was actually sitting there holding my breath, without knowing it. Amazing how a witness can shift a scene. Fyew!
    Carabunga: I am so glad you are being nice to yourself, in every moment--and you are SO strategic. Use what you know works. When I get all spun out, like you described, I turn everything off: phone, computer, music, and get out a huge piece of white paper (3'x2') and a giant marker. I set a timer for 10 minutes to just barf out everything that's spinning--when the timer goes off, I pick 3 things I can accomplish (or that are *truly* urgent); then spend 15 mins on each of them (forced by timer). So, within one hour, I have made SOME kind of progress. What do you think?
    Monica: I am SO happy for you. WOW, please tell me how you made it through Thanksgiving w/o sweets or bread? I need help on strategies around that--ate half a basket of tortilla chips yesterday!
  • Paula
    Yes, thank you for setting this community in motion. The thing that gets me off my butt and moving the best is knowing that other mortals like me are doing it too. If they can do it, so can I; if they have an off day sometimes, so can I; if they get right back on the horse again, so can I. A community can say "Yes, we can", but as an individual member, it's just as powerful for me to say, "So can I!"
  • dyanavalentine
    Paula: could not do this without YOU! I like being among mortals--hot language! I like to use, "Yes, we ARE!" and you truly are doing it, daily, even when you are spreading good vibes, you are rocking it right.
  • jenn
    you are a force! even when it's delayed, you keep your commitments to yourself! go dy!
  • Name
    Go Go Go Dy!
  • dyanavalentine
    Thanks, Rodney! I love a good rah-rah session.
    Jenn: MAN, thanks! It took a large spatula and a video camera to get my booty out the door--so glad I did. Knowing I'll sleep better (psych/physically) tonight. What are you doing for you?
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