Flu Reason: (34/40)

November 1, 2009

in 40 Days

slippinghandssuperfantasticWhat could be more about my body than being laid up with the flu? I planned for day 34 of 40 of my body challenge to be titled “back in action” because I assumed that all of the days of the challenge had to be in ACTION, thus taking days off and not posting on Sundays (and an occasional Sunday/Monday when my body was so worn out it sent flares).

Well, that thinking helped me:

  • stretch this 40 days out to an annoying, un-subscription inspiring, ridonkulously long time (total time elapsed since day one: 46 days);
  • practice valuing the days when I (over)worked as the only ones that “counted”; and
  • pushed my body past the point of health.

Where else do I do this in my life? More places than not. I push the envelope in ways that are sometimes brilliant, but truly most ways that simply make me tired. My busy-ddiction showing itself left and right.

Here’s what I learned (even though I don’t act on them):

  • slow and steady may not win the race, but it may get you there alive; and
  • you can’t unlearn how to rest, you may just get flabby rest muscles. Tone up those suckers and lay down–even for a minute.

As if her inspiration could be more on time and en pointe, Danielle LaPorte posted this Merton quote during my flu reasoning,

“Take more time, cover less ground.” – Thomas Merton.

I like the idea and the tone of his statement. But, what does it mean to me and how I might implement it. Ideas?
It really isn’t the end of the world to clear six days to rest and recover from the flu, just imagine what earth shattering reasoning I could do if I took that many days to frolic and create while healthy.

The 40 days of My Body (if you are new to this story, read the intro here) project, is a quest in service to my business, my body and my own path of finishing what I start. I am committed to exercising 6 days/week, keeping a food journal and being more aware of ways I use (and abuse) my body. Going public is extreme, yes, and it’s working! I’m working with a fantastic trainer, Sunny Riggs, to create a program I can sustain over time. She’s amazing. HIRE HER!

I am not alone on my quest. The roll call is at 31 people (including me)! Some are getting organized, others giving up fast food and some are simply breathing! Check out the updates and links below and show your support:

Tanya Geisler–40 days of hatha yoga and radical self-care. Check out her ROCKING tell-all post!
Petra Korn–30 days on her body (supported with love by hubby Nick)
Tia Reddy–yoga and exercise: she found her yoga plan was NOT working and made these adjustments.
Alisa Bonsignore–working out and food consciousness and shares a great Huffington Post article, 10 tips from a Personal Trainer today.
Suzie Powanda–no fast food or beverages. Check out her guest post getting into the nitty gritty of her challenge progress.
Julie Rorrer–training for the Austin marathon in Spring
Emma Alvarez Gibson–some bit of exercise, every day. She says, “micromovements are proving to be very effective! I’m beginning to look for excuses to get more exercise.”
Joyce Black–FINISHED her 21 days without caffeine and doing a general detox, congratulate her! She did a guest post, too!
Carabunga is rocking 40 days of hardcore productivity and rocking a blog about it. She gives a GREAT tutorial on strategic rest!
Paula Trucks-Pape and her husband: 87 Days of exploring their passions
Monica Kingsbury: 30 days of the Candida diet to deal with her sweet tooth
Jack and LisaMarie Rowell: 30 days of extreme health (alkaline diet)
Diane Sherry Case: 3 weeks of walking–she’s up to 20 minutes 4 days/week! (yoga if it rains)
Cindy Morefield: 21 Days of 30 mins/day of cardio exercise. Check out her guest post/video here.
Paula Estes: 30 Days of playing congas while she works in her studio
Sheila Hart
is IN: 21 Days of no sugar!
Amy Ahlers
: 40 days limiting processed food.)
SouperJenny Team: 40 Day hits the ATL! So far, Meredith is giving up sweets and Jenny is giving up booze!! 7 folks have joined their group. Gooo, Team Body, Mind, Spirit! Watch their  update videos here.

  • John from San Diego is giving up carbs and working out 3x/week
  • Sharon’s giving up all sugar except fruit
  • Merrideth giving up all sugar and exercising 4 times a week
  • Marcie will journal every day and cut down from 4 to 5 diet sodas a day to one per day
  • Tricia from Atlanta will drink a quart of her green juice concoction and exercise 5 to 7 times a week
  • Lucero Martinez a restaurant/bar owner will give up all alcohol
  • Jenny giving up all alcohol and working out 5 times a week

Ashley White-Stern: 40 days of meditation and says, “a controlled person is a dead person. A controlled person is not necessarily a disciplined person; discipline is totally different. Discipline comes out of awareness; control comes out of fear.”

M Arsenia Brown (aka: @donutdemon) joins with a commitment to 40 days of her body
Cat Sabonis-Chafee is in and says “I will move my ass” for 21 days of daily, considered exercise. She reminded me of a great tool: TAKE A DAY OFF every week and she added in an abs&stretch class today.
Emily-Sarah is joining with body awareness and daily movement. Welcome, Emily-Sarah.
Nicola Warwick kicks off 40 days of food journaling and diet hacking! TODAY! She’s using a super duper diet spreadsheet.

Are you a quester wanting to tell your story? Do it! E-mail me and put your own video or guest post up!

Photo by SuperFantastic and used under a Creative Commons license.

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  • emilysarah
    My 5-year-old son recently had the H1N1 flu (and two different docs said anyone who has the flu right now DOES have that strain), which wasn't beyond awful ... but the resulting pneumonia was scary! Thankfully he's was quite better by Sunday (although his lungs won't be 100% clear for a few weeks), and of course during his illness I got run down so finally the germs jumped on me. Flu bites!

    I'm starting to feel better and I'm glad you're on the mend as well. Germs just don't respect schedules and plans and goals at all, do they?! And as you say in your post (re: frolicking while healthy), being sick a few days definitely makes one more appreciative for all the healthy days.

    With my son especially, his sickness (and reading too many Google-searched articles of possible death for his age group) made me slow down and feel more. And then when it was my turn for a mild flu version, I just curled up and thought, prayed, and drifted to sleep, knowing that work and laundry and all the other to-do's would wait for me to return.

    Here's to wellness and to frolicking more fully and deliberately -- with gratitude and gusto!
  • dyanavalentine
    Three cheers to GUSTO, EmilySarah: please take care of yourself while you are caring for him. Did you learn anything from your son in the process? I always find that kids have the most glorious perspective, even when down. Praying certainly is something I haven't explored during this bout. I am starting now: I pray that this momentary hobbling allows me to rest and open up my mind to what needs doing and what wants doing and the insight to tell them apart. Thank you!
  • emilysarah
    Good advice for all of us whether sick or well (re: what needs doing vs. wants doing and recognizing the difference). You're so right (re: children's good perspective)! Daken was perfectly consistent with that five-year-old "in the moment" big-picture contentment. He said it was fun being with me (we cuddled for large chunks of several days). He missed the hyped-up Grandparents' Day special lunch at his school but was totally unmoved about it. After all, they have lunch at his school every day, he reminded me, and his grandparents can come another day. Not only that, but maybe them coming on a day when other children's grandparents weren't there would make HIS being there even more special.

    Well, geesh, all of that is so true. (I was lamenting -- but not him. He effortlessly elevated that "missed opportunity" into something that will be eventually more special.)

    If only I could so easily adapt my preconceived notions and plans. :-)
  • CindyMorefield
    Three cheers for Daken's perspective, and thanks for sharing it. Priceless.
  • dyanavalentine
    This makes me feel so "possible," you know? Just the idea that you can be so centered, like Daken, and simply not be bothered by speedbumps--or perceived bumps. I love it. Plus, grandparents are ALWAYS special. Let's all have a Daken Day tomorrow--just roll with it and say what he'd say, instead of getting a sticky in our talk.
  • emilysarah
    I told Daken before he went to preK. He feels very special now. :-) I pray you feel uber possible and explode with possibilities! Here's to Daken Day -- and as you said, here's to adopting that youthful roll-with-it attitude!
  • dyanavalentine
    I can't wait to hear what more we can learn from Daken! Please share stories, as they come! I'm feeling back to 95% now--fyew! Tough one. Glad to be out of the house again.
  • Sorry you're down with the flu dear. TAKE IT EASY. Sending you lots of love.
  • Get better soon!!
  • dyanavalentine
    Thank you, Beth and Melissa: your wishes to my immune system's ears. Send good thoughts to Adam, too, Beth. I'm taking all the good wishes in.
  • CindyMorefield
    Flu is no fun, for sure, and I'm glad you're on the upswing. Still, what great learnings! Or beginnings of learnings, anyway - action will continue the learning, right? Seems quite fitting with your whole quest, really. This project has bumped you into a whole range of body awareness, and that's very cool!
  • dyanavalentine
    Thanks, Cindy: yes, action is the only way. You are RIGHT! This speed bump is a gift--thank you for raising my eye to this level of positivity. I needed that! What are you learning about right now?
  • CindyMorefield
    You're quite welcome. What am I learning about? Well, it is finally starting to sink in - or perhaps I'm learning from the experience of action! - that when I prioritize the big stuff (the strengthening, inspiring, this-is-what-I-really-want stuff), other things fit themselves in, if they are important. That doesn't mean everthing gets done, but I'm so much more energized and satisfied by what IS accomplished. Thanks for asking!
  • dyanavalentine
    YESSS! and yes again, in a calmer voice. This is super exciting. You know what I'm learning from you, right now? Maybe everything doesn't need doing. That's some serious rocket science for me. I like it a lot. I'm focusing tonight's dreams on "this-is-really-what-I-want stuff." Thank you.
  • CindyMorefield
    Having to do everything is a mighty big burden! Not to mention impossible. ;) But even if narrowed to the subset of things you want to do or things it would be "good" to do, it's still unmanageable, especially for folks, such as yourself, who are gifted at ideation! Just way too many good ideas for all of them to be actionable. So I think choosing becomes important.

    I'll be interested to hear what you gleaned from the dream focusing.
  • dyanavalentine
    Cindy: thank you for being kind and so generous with your support an insights. I love the perspective on what's good and "could" happen, versus what is really important. I used your litmus test today and eliminated the "good to dos" felt amazing and got superb work done.
  • CindyMorefield
    Glad it was useful, and that you were able to work well. Good work feels so good, eh? (appropos of your most recent post!)
    So are you truly feeling well now? I hope so!
  • Traci
    I'm so happy you're back, and I hope you're feeling great (if not yet, then very very soon)! I think it's a delicate thing to learn how to tell your instinct (busy=best) to shut up so you can hear your intuition (hmmm...something's not quite right). I struggle with it constantly.
  • dyanavalentine
    Hmm, I wonder what the difference would be if I treated myself delicately--even if only on occasion. Something is definitely NOT right on the viral side. Working delicately today, thanks to you. How do you learn to listen, Traci? What are your best practices?
  • So many thoughts about this I can't even get one out coherently. Perhaps rest would help. Will be pondering the Merton quote for some time. Glad you're feeling better.
  • dyanavalentine
    Alana: please share some of those thoughts, once they get coherent. I think rest really is the thing. What's happening good over at WholeSelf?
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