Buy Levothyroxine (Euthyrox, Merck) Without Prescription http://dyanavalentine.com/2010/no-gotiation/ Speaker, Group Wrangler and Functional Muse Sun, 05 Feb 2012 23:10:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2 Buy Levothyroxine (Euthyrox, Merck) Without Prescription http://dyanavalentine.com/2010/no-gotiation/comment-page-1/#comment-407 dyanavalentine Wed, 13 Oct 2010 11:49:15 +0000 http://dyanavalentine.com/?p=911#comment-407 thank you, Lesley: I can relate to being a compulsive yesser! I'm especially enthusiastic when something new and shiny comes my way. I've trained myself with some scripts: wow! That sounds really exciting (then PAUSE for the real answer inside me that responds to: how much do I want to invest in this process?) Perhaps you have the MOST to give in the enthusiasm phase of a project or engagement--choose carefully and simply take note of resentments/resistance clues. Mine vary from a physical response (literally feeling oogy when a meeting around the topic comes up) or an emotional one (dreading a step in the process). Also, I am compelled to remind you that it is sometimes appropriate to say no after you've already said yes or gotten into a process. If you can't do your best work, withdraw yourself. It will get more elegant and you will be able to do it earlier as you practice. Thanks for weighing in! Please check back in and let me know how it's going. thank you, Lesley: I can relate to being a compulsive yesser! I'm especially enthusiastic when something new and shiny comes my way. I've trained myself with some scripts: wow! That sounds really exciting (then PAUSE for the real answer inside me that responds to: how much do I want to invest in this process?) Perhaps you have the MOST to give in the enthusiasm phase of a project or engagement–choose carefully and simply take note of resentments/resistance clues. Mine vary from a physical response (literally feeling oogy when a meeting around the topic comes up) or an emotional one (dreading a step in the process). Also, I am compelled to remind you that it is sometimes appropriate to say no after you've already said yes or gotten into a process. If you can't do your best work, withdraw yourself. It will get more elegant and you will be able to do it earlier as you practice. Thanks for weighing in! Please check back in and let me know how it's going.

]]> Buy Levothyroxine (Euthyrox, Merck) Without Prescription http://dyanavalentine.com/2010/no-gotiation/comment-page-1/#comment-404 Lesley DeSantis Wed, 13 Oct 2010 00:18:05 +0000 http://dyanavalentine.com/?p=911#comment-404 ugh I needed this! This is exactly what's been on my mind lately. I am like, a compulsive yesser. Even when I know I want to say no, I can't help myself from thinking "well maybe this will have a return later!" or "man I know I'm the only person that can do this, and this person knows that, so if I say no it will sound really jerkish of me", etc. <br><br>I am paying for it now, having said yes to a couple of things I really wish I hadn't. But hopefully in these negative, resentful, not-doing-as-good-a-job-as-I-could-if-I-really-truly-wanted-to-do-it moments I will feel more motivate to say no in the future. ugh I needed this! This is exactly what's been on my mind lately. I am like, a compulsive yesser. Even when I know I want to say no, I can't help myself from thinking “well maybe this will have a return later!” or “man I know I'm the only person that can do this, and this person knows that, so if I say no it will sound really jerkish of me”, etc.

I am paying for it now, having said yes to a couple of things I really wish I hadn't. But hopefully in these negative, resentful, not-doing-as-good-a-job-as-I-could-if-I-really-truly-wanted-to-do-it moments I will feel more motivate to say no in the future.

]]> Buy Levothyroxine (Euthyrox, Merck) Without Prescription http://dyanavalentine.com/2010/no-gotiation/comment-page-1/#comment-381 dyanavalentine Tue, 08 Jun 2010 10:33:58 +0000 http://dyanavalentine.com/?p=911#comment-381 thanks, Dave! I love the PNP--thanks for turning me on! thanks, Dave! I love the PNP–thanks for turning me on!

]]> Buy Levothyroxine (Euthyrox, Merck) Without Prescription http://dyanavalentine.com/2010/no-gotiation/comment-page-1/#comment-369 Dave Doolin Mon, 24 May 2010 20:50:00 +0000 http://dyanavalentine.com/?p=911#comment-369 "No-gotiation."<br><br>I like it.<br><br>The technique is classic, called by some the "101" or the "PNP." As in 1-positive-0-negative-1-positive.<br><br>Good stuff.<br><br>Coming in from Tanya Geisler. “No-gotiation.”

I like it.

The technique is classic, called by some the “101″ or the “PNP.” As in 1-positive-0-negative-1-positive.

Good stuff.

Coming in from Tanya Geisler.

]]> Buy Levothyroxine (Euthyrox, Merck) Without Prescription http://dyanavalentine.com/2010/no-gotiation/comment-page-1/#comment-366 Melanie Fri, 16 Apr 2010 21:47:54 +0000 http://dyanavalentine.com/?p=911#comment-366 Dyana, your comment sounds very interesting. I'll post a reply within 24 hours. ;-)<br><br>It's funny how saying no to the wrong things seems to open the floodgates for all of the right things. Good stuff, Dyana! Dyana, your comment sounds very interesting. I'll post a reply within 24 hours. ;-)

It's funny how saying no to the wrong things seems to open the floodgates for all of the right things. Good stuff, Dyana!

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]]> Buy Levothyroxine (Euthyrox, Merck) Without Prescription http://dyanavalentine.com/2010/no-gotiation/comment-page-1/#comment-364 Melanie Wed, 14 Apr 2010 17:23:30 +0000 http://dyanavalentine.com/?p=911#comment-364 The biggest thing I've noticed is how tense I get, before I even mentally process the requests for my time. My cells seem to know before I do that anything that doesn't serve my short list of priorities is going to be a time suck. The biggest thing I've noticed is how tense I get, before I even mentally process the requests for my time. My cells seem to know before I do that anything that doesn't serve my short list of priorities is going to be a time suck.

]]> Buy Levothyroxine (Euthyrox, Merck) Without Prescription http://dyanavalentine.com/2010/no-gotiation/comment-page-1/#comment-358 dyanavalentine Wed, 14 Apr 2010 10:18:13 +0000 http://dyanavalentine.com/?p=911#comment-358 Awesome, Melanie. I'd love to hear how this plays out for you--what you notice, what you say yes to. I think it's particularly important in this econ-atmosphere that job-seekers/career shapeshifters pay very close attention to what they say no and yes to. Follow the clues:) Awesome, Melanie. I'd love to hear how this plays out for you–what you notice, what you say yes to. I think it's particularly important in this econ-atmosphere that job-seekers/career shapeshifters pay very close attention to what they say no and yes to. Follow the clues:)

]]> Buy Levothyroxine (Euthyrox, Merck) Without Prescription http://dyanavalentine.com/2010/no-gotiation/comment-page-1/#comment-359 dyanavalentine Wed, 14 Apr 2010 10:16:54 +0000 http://dyanavalentine.com/?p=911#comment-359 Absolutely inspiring, Alana: Yes To The Great, indeed. I'm keeping that thought close to me today. Thank you! Absolutely inspiring, Alana: Yes To The Great, indeed. I'm keeping that thought close to me today. Thank you!

]]> Buy Levothyroxine (Euthyrox, Merck) Without Prescription http://dyanavalentine.com/2010/no-gotiation/comment-page-1/#comment-356 Melanie Sat, 10 Apr 2010 02:33:25 +0000 http://dyanavalentine.com/?p=911#comment-356 This is so true and so often overlooked! It reminds me that I need to focus on eliminating all of those icky obligations I took on by not saying "no"... then start saying "yes" only to the things that serve my priorities. <br><br>The suggestion to notice how you physically feel after each request is such a good one! This is so true and so often overlooked! It reminds me that I need to focus on eliminating all of those icky obligations I took on by not saying “no”… then start saying “yes” only to the things that serve my priorities.

The suggestion to notice how you physically feel after each request is such a good one!

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