I had a dream last night—I’ll save you the full details (unless you want them), but let’s say William Shatner, a large scared Husky and a fictional opera diva, Leonore (on whom I had my first celebrity crush, evidenced by walking up to her in the dream to tell her how stunningly she had influenced me and bursting into fan tears) were all there.
The closing scene: I was in a car, recovering from my dreamvening, talking to my mom on the phone. After I’d gone a few blocks, I said, still teary from Leonore and the Husky and Captain Kirk (really Shatner-slash-McConaughey), “How do I get from here to your house?” –silence- “Well?” and woke, clear as a bell at my usual, 532am.
How do I get from here to. . .? Have you ever asked yourself? Are you asking it now? What’s the conundrum?
Is that your real question?
Let’s go deeper:
Where do we go from here?
What do we do when we get there?
How do we do what we do when we get there?
Are these the right questions?
What about: what is my passion?
How do I express my values?
Does it matter where I’m going if I’m not living at my highest vibe right here, right now?
What are your questions? Dreams? Do you have answers to share here? Leave a comment, take a comment.
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Last week, I had the pleasure of recording a tele-seminar with Dallas Travers and her Thriving Artist Circle. Five brave volunteers completed a Project Assessment, detailing what project they were working on and what help they needed. We then worked with them to help them combine their personal strengths with their struggles to come up with unique project solutions to move them forward. This one hour recording gives you a great example of how I help self-starters learn to be self-finishers. Remember: if you focus on even ONE of the 5-steps to self-finishing, you WILL make progress!
1. Start where you are: be nice to yourself! Just because you aren’t an expert now, trust that you’ll get there.
2. Accept invitations: even unlikely ones.
3. Ask for feedback: be clear about what you need and when.
4. Focus on what DOES work: be positive and be brave enough to re-evaluate your goals.
5. Make a small decision and TRY it: nothing is permanent, you can always try something else.
6. GET ACCOUNTABLE: when you are in the moment of choosing to watch tv on hulu.com; call a friend and be SPECIFIC about what you are doing—endcap it with a call to report what you did accomplish. Here’s an Accountability Check In Sheet to help you start your own accountability process.
Dallas and I invite you to download and listen to the tele-seminar: Dallas Travers & Dyana Valentine: Finish What You Start! (you may wish to complete the Project Assessment first), and enjoy the process. Write your questions, suggestions and ideas in the comments. Let me know how I can help you finish what you start!
